Let it Go!

Today while sitting with my father trying to have everything make since about the last couple of days he gave me some amazing advice some advice that I hope would change my life in the world of Sonic. Sonic might as well be a gigantic High School because there is the in crowd and the out crowd. Currently it is very obvious that I am on the out crowd now. The gossip was being spread about me and the attitudes towards me were only getting worse and worse each day. To honest it was getting really old insanely fast. This is when my dad explained everything I needed to learn about how to deal with stuck up dramatic people. The people that we all hate and how to no longer let them affect my life and affect my work.

The first rule to live by was "It is what it is" they are starting drama and being assholes because they can there is nothing you can do to change what is happening or how it's making you feel but at the same time you need to just remember it is what it is and let it go.

The second rule was "people aren't going to change". No matter how much you want to help them become a better person or help them find their way so they can be happy as well. So you have to remember that they are never going to change unless they want to and obviously it is not worth your time and effort to try to help them through times in their life if they don't want to make the changes to make their lives better.

The last but definitely not least rule to live by "How you react determines how happy you are in life, don't fight back because even though you won that battle you have not won the war because you are going to be miserable". Everything about this sentence is amazing as soon as it came out of my dads mouth I realized that after every argument I have had at work with people left me proud of myself in the beginning but slowly beginning to make me hate my job. Through life you have to love your job and what you are doing because in all honesty you will spend more time there than you really ever get to at home with your friends and loved ones.

So my lesson for the day is to let work bullshit be work bullshit don't take it home with you and realize that these people are not wanting to do anything better with their lives so why waste any time on them when they obviously will not put any time or effort into making their lives better. So in other words instead of ever sitting down and reading this you could have just watched frozen and sang Elsa's song "Let it Go".